When I was 40 pounds heavier,
I always thought,
I need to lose weight. What I realized after I started losing weight was that I didn’t need to lose weight. I needed to gain COURAGE and the weight would take care of itself, or not. The weight wasn’t the problem, it was the courage to commit to myself that was the problem.
Courage was lacking when I wanted to go out and run. The I can’t, I won’t, I’m too fat, I jiggle when I run voice was all over my mind. Instead – out loud I would say, “I don’t have time”, knowing full well, I lacked the courage to stick with it.
You might choose to use your courage for something other than getting out and exercising, but courage is what it takes to take care of yourself and not feel bad about it.
Courage – the quality of mind or spirit that enables a person to face difficulty, danger, pain…without fear.
WITHOUT FEAR! Imagine that. What if I ran and nothing happened? What if I ran and didn’t lose weight? What if?
With courage you don’t worry about such things, you do them! Without fear!
It doesn’t take courage to be who you are, you already are. What takes courage is not being perfect – letting go of fear. You do not HAVE to lose weight, you do not HAVE to be authentic, you do not HAVE to be true to yourself, but to do these things, you do have to have COURAGE.
Having courage can feel like you are speaking for the first time. Letting your own voice and beliefs out into the world. It can be scary, but with courage, you won’t fear it.
Once you let it out in the open – courage is contagious. If you can find a little courage everyday, you’ll see in time that courage multiplies and AMPLIFIES. The root word of courage is cor, latin for heart. You have heart! Courage is in you! FEAR NOT.
I’m still not at the weight that I want to be, but I have the courage to keep trying, the courage to put fitness as a priority in my life, and the courage to stop berating myself for not being where I want to be.
Be courageous – be you, be awesome. Take the first step. What do you want to gain the courage to do/say/be?